Group vs. Private Music Lessons: Which Is Best For You? (Pros, Cons & Tips)

Whether you’re picking up an instrument for the first time or revisiting music after years away, how you learn can shape your entire experience. Some thrive in a lively, group environment where they can share laughs (and wrong notes) with others. Others prefer the focus and personal attention that comes with one-on-one lessons. There’s no one-size-fits-all answer—but understanding the pros and cons of each can help you decide.

Why This Decision Matters!

The Perks Of Group Music Lessons

Group lessons aren’t just about learning an instrument—they’re about community. Imagine being part of a musical team, where progress is celebrated, mistakes are shared (and often laughed at), and you’re motivated by friendly competition.

Why people love group lessons:

• Motivation through camaraderie: Practicing with peers can push you to keep up and improve.

• Social benefits: Great for kids (and adults!) who enjoy making new friends.

• Cost-effective: Typically more budget-friendly than private lessons.

• Performance confidence: Regularly playing in front of others reduces stage fright.

If you’re someone who enjoys learning alongside others, thrives on group energy, and wants to make music a social experience, group lessons could be your jam! 🎶

Why Private Lessons Might Be Your Thing

Ever wished you could have someone’s full attention while you learn? That’s where private lessons shine. It’s just you and your teacher, working on what you need at your own pace. No distractions, no pressure to keep up—or slow down—for anyone else.

Top reasons why people choose private lessons:

• Personalised instruction: Lessons are tailored to your goals and challenges.

• Faster progress: With undivided attention, you can improve more quickly.

• Flexibility: Choose lesson times and focus areas that suit you.

• Comfortable environment: Especially helpful for shy learners who feel overwhelmed in groups.

I asked an adult student of mine, who switched from group lessons to private instruction a few months ago, what prompted the change. Her reply cracked me up: "I figured it was time to stop hiding behind everyone else’s wrong notes and face my own... and honestly, I wanted my mistakes to be heard loud and clear—by just one person!" Her honesty is refreshing—and pretty relatable! Sometimes, you just want to confront your musical challenges head-on, without the distractions (or cover) of a group setting.

So, Which One Should You Choose?

It really comes down to your learning style and goals. Love the energy of a group and the motivation of playing alongside others? Go for group lessons. Prefer focused guidance and setting your own pace? Private lessons could be the way to go.

Here are some quick questions to ask yourself:

✅ Do you get motivated by peers or prefer one-on-one attention?
✅ Is cost a significant factor?
✅ Are you looking to build social connections or focus purely on skill-building?
✅ How do you handle learning at someone else’s pace?
✅ Do you have specific goals that require personalised focus?

Let’s be honest—every option has its quirks! Group lessons are fun and social, but sometimes the pace might not match what you need, and you might find yourself wishing for a little more one-on-one time. Private lessons, on the flip side, are all about you (which is great!), but having the spotlight can feel a bit intense—and let’s not forget, they can be a bit heavier on the wallet. At the end of the day, it’s about figuring out what matters most to you: do you thrive with the energy of a group, or do you prefer the focused attention of a private setting? There’s no right or wrong—just what keeps you excited to keep playing!

Can You Have the Best of Both Worlds?

Absolutely! Some students start with group classes for the social vibe and then switch to private lessons to fine-tune their skills. Others do both simultaneously—learning in private sessions and practicing with peers. It’s all about what keeps you engaged and excited to play.

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Final Thoughts

At the end of the day, the best choice is the one that keeps you motivated and makes you look forward to each lesson. Music is a journey—sometimes you’ll want company, and other times, you’ll enjoy a solo path. The key is to pick the route that makes your musical adventure enjoyable and sustainable.

Still unsure? Why not try both and see what resonates with you? After all, music is all about exploration, expression, and a little bit of fun along the way.

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About The Author

Padmavathy Divakaran is a distinguished pianist, arranger, and music educator, currently serving as the Director of Aum Piano Studio. Formerly the representative for MTB Exams in Tamil Nadu and Karnataka - a globally recognised music education board based in the UK - she has consistently championed excellence in music education. Padmavathy holds a BA (Honours) in Music from Middlesex University, London, and a Diploma in Higher Education – Music from KM College of Music and Technology, Chennai. Her outstanding talent has been recognised through multiple scholarships and awards, including those presented by Dr. A.R. Rahman. As a performer, she has showcased her versatility across classical and contemporary genres, playing with orchestras in both London and Chennai. She was a core member of the Roliwood Seaboard Ensemble, playing a key role in the global launch of the ROLI Seaboard. Her artistry has earned her the honour of performing at prestigious events, including a special performance for Prince William, Simon Cowell, and other notable personalities at The Founders Forum in the UK — a testament to her global reach and artistic impact.